If you feel that love has passed and the relationship has become strained, this is not yet a reason to plan a divorce or to go to extremes, believes the popular psychotherapist Eva-Maria Zurhorst, known in Germany and worldwide. Try first to honestly and objectively assess what you really (not your parents, society, or friends) expect from this relationship, and share your aspirations with your partner. From the book, you will learn what prevents you from living happily with your chosen partner, how to stop making the same mistakes in relationships, and why the search for the perfect partner is fruitless until you love yourself. Based on personal experience, as well as the experience of thousands of couples the author has already helped.